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When it comes to fantasy types, I can only imagine 07

01. The fantasy of having sex with more than two people together.

These are, I think, the most sex fantasies in the world. These include Thrisam, Forsam, Group Sex, Orgy and many more. Do you know why so many people love this kind of fantasy? Because a lot of people can become a sex star through this kind of fantasy. Now imagine group sex.Think about one with five girls near a swimming pool(stop thinking read this first😂). Now you imagine that there are five girls and only one boy, right? That boy is you. This is why a lot of people like fantasies like this because it can be a super sex bullet in the middle of a crowd.

02. Power, control and rough sex-based fantasy.

Do you know what is the most famous of these power, control and rough sex-based fantasies? Bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism. Do not say we do not know what it is. BDSM is what it is.

Bondage is a BDSM culture. It involves the sexual intercourse of the other person with his or her arms or legs. Inside this, there are so many dangerous things up to the limbs hanging up. But inside a fantasy, we talk about simple, innocent things. Now there are bondage kits for sale in some places. These have handcuffs on them. The work is so innocent that the handcuffs are covered with something like velvet to prevent scratches and damage. So If I write a full description of BDSM this article may be very long if you like to check out More about BDSM I wrote another document check that.

t and most famous is face sitting. Then there is another such thing called dominatrix. Don’t know what it is? Do you call it Femdom or is it a woman based sex style that imposes power on men.

The BDSM culture of submission is to obey him. There’s a lot of work in this. For example, mock rape means lying about something like raping him. Some people do this beautifully by talking in advance and setting bounderies like that. I told him first that I would do this for the next 3 days … he would come from behind and force me to do it when he didn’t even think about it. The girl should also oppose it at that time.

BDSM itself belongs to sadism and masochism (S&M) … what the hell is that? Sadism is the sexual gratification of hurting another masochism is the sexual gratification of hurting oneself. There are two words in the Sinhala language that I do not like. Called paranoia and self-oppression. Both of those words teach us that they are like a grave sin. Under the guise of sadism and masochism, serious and dangerous work is being done. But there is a very simple general work inside of it. For example, a boy may like to punch his girlfriend in the back. A girl can be like a crazy bitch biting a guy. I say they are OK.

Some men and women love humiliation. This is a subculture in S&M culture. Now the most famous thing is to make the other person pee on his own body or pee on his own body. Others have a desire to spit in the face or body. Another thing is to insert things like electric egg or butt plugs into the body and take him somewhere. Activating the egg or butt plug with a small remote. Another very simple task is for the boy to take off the girl’s panties and send her home with nothing — the baby to be blown away by the wind. So the shame comes to life.

03. Adventure and novelty fantasy.

It’s about new things that have not been done in life and fantasy-like adventure with a strange excitement. These are often simple things. It includes having sex at a beach, paying for a sex toy and trying on it, playing a sex game, and trying on a weird sex position. Especially for girls, first fantasy is to do sex on a sofa, being alone in their bed with their husbands. They also belong to this category.

When a relationship between two people goes on for a long time, something called ‘bedroom bordem’ comes up. That means there is not as much interest in work now as there used to be. This is normal, well, it happens to everyone. When it’s hard to eat bread every night. At a time like this, make a fantasy like this, talk to each other, dream the way you do it, and finally do it and actually activate your sex life — or we say you both need to know how to continue the bond-like first day you start to love.

04. Non-monogamy fantasy.
Monogamy means being with only one partner for life. Now non-monogamy is the other side of it — that’s not adultery or boxing. Connecting with other people of both wills. “It is better not to break up families to do non-monogamy fantasy.”

Any other open relationship or polyamory belongs to this kind of fantasy. What happens is that with the consent and awareness of one of the two, the other maintains a relationship with the other. Do not ask if they are available in the world or if they are available with women. If their own levels are their own, then what if those who like it do so? For me, such people have come to me for advice.

Then swinging — or wife swapping, husband swapping or partner swapping — is a similar fantasy. And that cuckold — that is, things like letting your partner have sex with someone else on the condition that you want to let them see the sex or tell you about it afterwards.

Others may have this kind of fantasy of cheating, that is, cheating on their partner outside of having a relationship with someone else. The answer I give to fantasies like this is different. What I generally accept is that this kind of fantasy is caused by a lack of love and sexual pleasure from the person they are with right now. Or because of the inability to continue to respect the commitment of a marriage corporation. Therefore, in such a situation, do not think of leaving your spouse except to talk about what you get less, and do things like activating your sex life with him. If possible, get rid of another person by telling him or her not to be a thief or a cheater who cheats on that person.

05. Taboo and Forbidden Fantasy.

This means that they were sent contrary to normal social norms. Whether in the bedroom or outside, we all like the prohibitions that do not belong to us.

Then these taboos belong to things like licking the soles of the feet and licking the armpits. Sexual satisfaction from urine can be added to this as well. Then there are those who are worshipping. That is to say, those who have created Facebook pages like “The Most Venerable Piumi Hansamali” and then “Let’s worship the feet of Nadeesha Hemamali” — they also in this fantasy.
Forbidden includes voyeurism or snooping on the opposite sex or having sex with a close relative. One of the fantasies that many men have is their sexual desire for a close relative of their wife. Some people have a crush on their wife’s sister. Needless to say, these are things that society does not approve of. So keep in mind that fantasy like this is one of the most harmful fantasies in any society.

06. Sexy and Loving Fantasy.

Now, when I say ‘fantasy’, to some it may seem like allot, but it’s not. People can have very sexy and lovable fantasies. Have a candlelit dinner, sit by the beach, hug and cuddle until the body heats up, kiss a lot before sex, foreplay until it’s too late, and give the other a loving massage.

One of the biggest fantasies boys have is having their mouths open until their girlfriend or wife leaves. There was a campus friend of mine whose biggest fantasy was to give her husband the “virginity” on the night of the wedding. So those fantasies. The fantasy of putting a naughty dress on his wife, looking at that sexy beauty and then rolling her into bed. That said, fantasies are not the only thing that’s terribly weird.

07. Fantasy that does not capture the social acceptance of general sexual identity.

What is that? This is what a normal sexual identity means. If you are a man reading this now, what is the social acceptance of the way you behave sexually? You’re basically a workaholic, you’re portrayed in men’s clothes like pants, you’ve the one with the inserts? Is that so? Then what if you are a woman? You are represented by women’s clothing such as skirts, saris and gowns. You are the one who owns that penis. That is the social acceptance of gender identity. this is about seeing men as men and women as women. But there is a fantasy that does not fall into these definitions. We divide this type of fantasy into two basic parts.

01. Gender-bending fantasies
02. Sexual fluidity fantasies

Now Gender-bending fantasies are a time when a person goes against the social acceptance of their sexual identity. Give examples? Now there are some men who like to wear women’s underwear and underwear. We call them female crossdressers. They get sexual satisfaction out of it. Similarly, there are those who do male crossdressing who get sexual satisfaction through menswear. Now, when you see a man in a woman’s dress, you are shocked when you suddenly see him, aren’t you? This means that the said man has gone against general social acceptance. And then things like strapon, and sissy also fall under this category

Then sexual fluidity fantasies mean that a person’s sexual identity dissolves within such fantasies. Sexual fluidity is a subject that we study throughout the semester, even at the advanced degree level. That’s why it’s hard to say simply this way. These kinds of fantasies can be bi-sexual things or things like homosexual fantasies. Inside that kind of fantasy the sexual identity that you had for so long changes. Then we classify that sexual fluidity as temporary and permanent. That means a guy might like to try out crossdressing with a guy only once or do a threesome with a guy like that. It’s only once. They are permanent so that feeling can last a long time. Then he can definitely be bisexual or gay.

I urge everyone to understand that these fantasies, especially gender bending fantasies, are very common. We can feel that some of those things are eh, crazy. Or you may be wondering what the hell is going on. But it is their choice. It’s okay if we do not understand them, but laugh at those who have such feelings, and do not try to embarrass them. The world today does not see these as unusual. A lot of these things are things that don’t bother us. So let’s not judge them by letting them do as they please.